I like to play a little game. I call it...

Count Down to Green

Here's what you do.

• As your driving up to a red light, start counting down from 5 ( you can make it 6 or 7 if you like ). 
• Make sure to count calmly, so that it's a real second, not a pretend second.
• By the time you hit 0 the light will turn green. 

Will it? Really?

Maybe. It works all the time for me. And every time it reminds me that I'm still at the steering wheel of my own life.